Wetter Is Better: The Ultimate Guide To Lube

March 7, 2025

If you’re not using lube, you’re missing out. Period. End of story.

Okay, not really the end, because we love talking about lube. Lube is one of the most underrated, underused, and absolutely essential parts of a great sex life. Whether you’re flying solo or with a partner lube brings your pleasure game to the next level.

Not convinced? Buckle up, because we’re about to get absolutely dripping wet with all the lube facts, tips, and myths you need to know.

Why Lube is a Game-Changer

If you think lube is only for people who “need” it, think again. Yes, it helps if you experience dryness, but adding lube to your play is really about enhancing pleasure for everyone. Repeat after me, wetter is always better. Let’s explore why lube should be a staple part of your play.

Increases Safety – Lube reduces the chances of tearing during sex. Whenever there is a tear, there is a chance for infection, pain and discomfort. Not to mention, the use of lubes reduces the risk of condoms breaking during sex.

Increases Comfort – Less friction = smoother, more pleasurable sensations. No more chafing or discomfort! This means you can go longer without experiencing irritation. Marathon session anyone?

Better Orgasms – Lube makes everything more sensitive. More sensitivity means better sensations and better orgasms.

A Must for Toys – Many sex toys work way better with lube, especially if they’re made of silicone or made for penetration. That being said, please make sure you are using a lube that is compatible with your sex toy material. For information on that see our blog post on sex toy materials here.

Essential for Butt Stuff – The anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so if you’re playing back there, lube is absolutely non-negotiable if you want to avoid pain, tearing and bleeding.

Bottom line, lube paves the way for better, more pleasurable sex.

Which Lube is Right for You?

Not all lubes are created equal. They all have their pros and cons. Picking the right one depends on how you plan to use it. Here’s a quick guide:

Water-Based Lube – The all-around MVP. Safe for all toys and condoms, easy to clean, and feels natural. Downsides? It can dry out faster, but a quick little reapplication fixes that. We are fans of Sliquid Sparkle .

Silicone-Based Lube – The ultra-slick option. It lasts longer, is great for shower play, and is ideal for anal. Just don’t use it with silicone toys (it can break them down). Also worth noting that some silicone lubes can stain your sheets. Fortunately, silicone lubes like our favorite Uberlube, won’t stain your sheets and are super easy to clean up.

Oil-Based Lube – Thick, luxurious, and perfect for massages and sex. But beware—oil can break down latex condoms and stain sheets. (Good thing we sell waterproof sex blankets, huh?). We are crazy about Woo More Play Coconut Love Oil. It all natural and tastes amazing.

Hybrid Lube – A mix of water and silicone makes this lube super versatile, giving you the best of both worlds. It is longer-lasting than water-based lube, and easy to clean up. We suggest Good Clean Love Hybrid Lubricant.

Best Lube for Every Situation

Oral Play: Flavored water-based lubes make everything taste better. Make sure to choose a sugar-free and body-safe lube!

Anal Play: Go for a thicker, long-lasting silicone-based or hybrid lube. More glide = more comfort=more smiles.

Toys & Vibrators: Water-based lubes are the safest bet unless you’re using glass or metal toys (then silicone lube is fine!).

Shower Fun: Silicone-based lube thrives in wet conditions—water won’t wash it away.

Massage + Sex: Oil-based lubes double as massage oils, making for a sensual warm-up and smooth play.

Lube Myths We’re Busting Right Now

“Only older people or people with dryness need lube.”
Nope! Even if you’re naturally wet, lube makes everything better. Trust me.

“Spit works just as well as lube.”
Listen, nothing wrong with a little spit, but it dries up fast. If you want actual slickness that lets you focus on play, lube is your friend.

“Lube will ruin the mood.”
What’s sexier: stopping for five seconds to add lube or dealing with discomfort, chafing, tearing and less pleasure? Exactly. Plus, if you make applying lube part of foreplay, it’s hot.

“All lubes are the same.”
Some lubes have harmful ingredients (we see you, glycerin and parabens). Stick with high-quality, body-safe options for a worry-free glide. Check out our vetted collection of lubes here.

How to Use Lube Like a Pro

Start with a little, add more as needed. A dime-sized amount goes a long way. You can always add more later.

Warm it up. Rub it between your fingers, warming it up before applying for a better sensation.

Reapply as needed. Water-based lubes can dry out, so don’t be afraid to add more!

Pair it with a sex blanket. No worries about messing up your sheets (or couch) —just enjoy the ride. Check out our collection of sex blankets here.