Why Use Sex Toys as a Couple?
It’s a mistake to think that sex toys are just for solo play—they can bring a whole new dimension to your relationship. Here are some pros of using sex toys with your partner:- Improved Communication: Incorporating sex toys requires conversation. You and your partner will need to talk honestly about what you like, what feels good, and what you want to explore. It’s the perfect way to foster deeper communication and intimacy.
- Increased Pleasure: By their very nature, sex toys are designed to make things more pleasurable. So of course, the by-product of using them is that you and your partner will get the opportunity to experience more pleasure – together! Whether it’s focusing on external stimulation or deeper sensations, they can enhance mutual pleasure for both partners.
- Breaking Routine: It’s possible for every couple to fall into routines, and the inclusion of sex toys can help break the cycle. Sex toys allow you and your partner to experience new sensations and chase down new desires.
Now that you know why bringing sex toys into your relationship is awesome, let’s dive into some popular categories of toys that couples like to explore.
Couples’ Vibrators
Vibrators designed for couples are a natural choice. These sleek toys come in shapes that can be worn during penetrative sex, allowing both partners to enjoy the vibrations.
What’s Great About These:
- Both partners experience simultaneous stimulation
- Hands-free
- Some come with app-controlled options that allow you to switch things up at the touch of a button
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Remote-Controlled Toys
Want to take control? Remote-controlled toys adds thrilling variety to your sex life. One partner wears or uses the toy, while the other controls the toys intensity. You can experiment with this from across the room, or in public if you want to be more risqué. This can be especially fun for date nights. Image the possibilities of letting the tension and excitement build even before you get home.
What’s Great About These:
- Hands-free fun
- Allows for discreet public play
- Gives customizable control
Our Picks:
- Lovense Flexer Panty Vibrator
- B-Vibe Vibrating Heart Plug Small/Medium
- Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator
- Lovense Diamo Vibrating C Ring
Grinding Cushions, Strapless Strap-Ons and Strap-on Accessories
Grinding Cushions
For those looking to explore the world of strap-ons, grinding cushions like those from Banana Pants are fantastic. These grinders offer the perfect base for strap-on play or solo grinding pleasure. There are a variety of textured surfaces that are designed for maximum stimulation, so both partners can experience pleasure at the same time.
What’s Great About These:
- Perfect for strap-on or dildo play
- Ideal for those who enjoy grinding
- Gender-inclusive options available
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Strapless Strap-Ons
Strapless strap-ons are an exciting option for those who love to incorporate penetration into their play. This toy generates g-spot stimulation for the wearer while the receiver gets delightful P-spot or G-spot stimulation at the same time.What’s Great About These:
- Great for those who enjoy penetrating or being penetrated
- Excellent option for experimenting with gender roles in the bedroom
- App controlled
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Couples’ Bondage Kits
Feeling feisty? Couples' bondage kits allow you to explore power dynamics through bondage. These kits often include restraints in the form of cuffs or ties, blindfolds, and sometimes even impact toys like floggers or paddles. Bondage can be as light or intense as you want. Remember to always focus on consent and communication.
What’s Great About These:
- Adds a naughty sense of fun
- Great for building trust and enhancing communication around limits and power dynamics in the bedroom
- A great way to introduce bondage into your play
Our Pick
- Liberator Bond Deluxe Cuff and Blindfold Kit
- Sportsheets Special Edition Under the Bed Restraint Set
Vibrating Cock Rings
A cock ring can enhance the sexual experience for both partners by restricting blood flow to the penis, which can lead to longer-lasting erections and stronger orgasms for the penis haver. Vibrating cock rings add stimulate the clitoris during penetration introducing even more stimulation
What’s Great About These:
- Enhances and prolongs erection
- Adds clitoral stimulation for the partner (most women don’t orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone)
- Elevates sensations during penetrative
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Anal Toys for Couples
For those who enjoy or want to explore anal play, there are tons of toys that are couple-friendly. Anal plugs, vibrating butt plugs, and prostate massagers can all be fun toys for enhancing pleasure for both partners. Remember to always use plenty of lube, communicate clearly, and go slow if you're new to anal play.
What’s Great About These:
- Anal toys can trigger P-spot orgasms
- Anal toys can enhance G-spot and clitoral sensations
- Increases emotional intimacy
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Pro Tips for Introducing Toys Into Your Relationship:
- Start Slow: If you’re new to using toys as a couple, ease into it. Don’t feel like you need to go all-out at once. This isn’t a race.
- Communicate: Open conversations about comfort levels and desires are key. Check in with your partner frequently. Don’t be afraid to be honest.
- Experiment: Don’t be afraid to try new things! If something isn’t working, move on to something else—you can always come back later. Experimentation is key to finding out what works best for you and your partner.
- Keep it Fun: This journey is about pleasure and connection. The key to keeping it fun is communication and keeping an open mind.
Ready to Explore?
There’s no right or wrong way to incorporate toys into your sex life. Go with what feels good for you and your partner! Whether you’re into vibrations, restraint play, or something totally unique, there’s a whole world of toys waiting for you to explore together. So, get adventurous, have fun, and take your connection to the next level.Ready to try something new? Check out our Shared Pleasure Collection at SugarX to find the perfect addition to your intimate moments!
