Male Pleasure Essentials: A Guide To Sex Toys For Men

A Guide To Sex Toys For Men at SugarX

Sex toys aren’t just for women, and it’s time we normalize that. Whether you’re having a little solo fun or playing with a partner, sex toys can be a game-changer for a penis haver’s pleasure. At SugarX, we believe in a sex-positive, pleasure-positive world where everyone deserves to experience their body to the fullest—and that includes men! So, let’s dive into the world of sex toys for men and explore what’s out there.

Strokers and Masturbators

Let’s start with the basics—stroker sex toys are commonly used for masturbation but can be used with a partner. Strokers can mimic the sensations of oral, vaginal, or anal sex. They can range from simple handheld models to high-tech versions with vibrations and heating functions and come in all sorts of textures. Think of them as a personal massage for your penis.

One standout? The Arcwave Pow Stroker. It’s made with a super soft CleanTech Silicone sleeve that features controllable suction. This compact stroker features a sleek design and is small enough to travel with.

 

Sex toys for men, the Arcwave Pow Stroker at SugarX.

 

Prostate Massagers

Prostate stimulation isn’t just good for your health—it’s also incredibly pleasurable. Many men find that they have heightened sensations and stronger orgasms through prostate play. Prostate massagers are designed to stimulate the prostate gland, often referred to as the “male G-spot” or the “P-spot”. These toys can help unlock new levels of pleasure, especially when combined with external stimulation.

Some of our favorites include the Njoy Pure Wand, which has a smooth, weighty, curved design for precise P-spot targeting, and B-Vibe 360 Butt Plug, which is ideal for hands-free fun with its remote-control feature.

Sex toys for men, Njoy PURE Wand on its side from a different angle on a plain white background showcasing its curved stainless steel design. Available at SugarX in the Dildo section of the Sex Toys collection.
Sex toys for men, B-Vibe 360 Plug in Black on white background. Available at SugarX in Sex Toys in the Butt Plug collection.

Vibrating Cock Rings

Vibrating cock rings are an excellent option for men looking to enhance their erections while prolonging pleasure. Cock rings restrict blood flow, helping the wearer to maintain a firmer, longer-lasting erection. The added vibrations stimulate both the wearer and their partner, making it a win-win.

One to try? We suggest the Tor 3 by Lelo—it’s powerful, made from body-safe silicone and app-controlled, offering incredible sensation.

LELO Tor 3 Base Blue C-Rings

Anal Toys

Anal toys aren’t just for partnered play. More and more men are discovering the pleasure of anal stimulation, and fortunately it’s becoming increasingly mainstream. Butt plugs and anal beads are a great way to experiment with this type of play and see if its right for you.

For beginners, the njoy Pure Plug in either Small or Medium is a fantastic option. It’s weighty enough to provide a satisfying sensation but comfortable enough to wear all day. Experienced users may enjoy larger options like the njoy Pure Plug 2.0 XL or a anal toy like the B-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 that uses rotating beads to create a rimming sensation.  

Sex toys for men, Medium Njoy Pure Plug butt plug on a plain white background showcasing its stainless steel design made for long term wear. Available at SugarX in the Butt Plug section of the Sex Toys collection.
Sex toys for men, the Pure Plug 2.0 XL Butt Plug on a plain white background. Available at SugarX in the Butt Plug section of the sex toy collection.
Sex toys for men, B-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 in Orange on white background. Available at SugarX in Sex Toys in the Butt Plug collection.

Want to give anal beads a try? The B-Vibe Triplet Beads are a great place to start. This toy features an easy grip handle, tapered beads and remote-controlled vibrations. This allows you to experiment with anal beads and vibrations.

Sex toys for men, B-Vibe Triplet Beads in Black on white background. Available at SugarX in Sex Toys in the Butt Plug collection.

Vibrators

Vibrators aren’t just for women! Vibrators come in various shapes and sizes, from wand-style massagers that can be used externally on the penis and/or scrotum (highly recommend) to vibrating sleeves or strokers that surround you with pleasurable vibrations.

The Doxy Die Cast Massager in Matte Black & 24k Gold is a standout—it’s beautifully designed to offer powerful RPM's from 3,000 to 9,000. The weightier metal body emphasizes the throbbing vibrations to making the experience even more intense. 

Whether you’re looking for a little added stimulation or a whole new way to climax, a vibrator might just be your next best friend.

Doxy Die Cast wand vibrator in matte black and 24k gold, displayed upright on a white background. A premium sex toy from SugarX's vibrators collection designed for intense pleasure.

Remote-Controlled Toys

Remote-controlled sex toys aren’t just for partnered play, but they can definitely make for a lot of fun with a partner. These toys can be controlled from a distance, making them a great choice for long-distance relationships or getting a little spicy during date night.

Toys like the Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo or Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager can be controlled via app or remote control, allowing your partner to take over. Whether you’re at home or halfway across the globe, these toys keep the excitement alive.

Sex toys for men, Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Couples Vibrator at SugarX.
Sex toys for men, the Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager Prostate Massager at SugarX

Pro Tip: Use a water-based lube with silicone toys and always clean your toys with mild soap or a toy cleaner after every use.

Check out our selection of personal lubricants here and our sex toy cleaners here.

Breaking the Stigma

Men’s sex toys are slowly but surely breaking free from the stigma that surrounds them. They’re simply another tool to help you explore your desires and enhance your pleasure.

At SugarX, we believe that everyone deserves to embrace and explore their sexual experience, and we’re here to help you find the right tools to make that happen. Whether you’re just starting your journey or looking to add to your collection, there’s a toy for every penis out there.

Final Thoughts

Exploring sex toys as a man can feel like uncharted territory, but it’s well worth the adventure. Whether you’re experimenting with prostate stimulation, enjoying an earth-shattering orgasm with a vibrator, or using a cock ring, these toys are designed to make pleasure more accessible for everyone. Don’t be shy—give yourself the gift of satisfaction. You deserve it!

Shop our collection of sex toys for men here!

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